The NJEIS Central Regional office handles referrals for children under three. Many Mercer parents work in Princeton or Trenton while living somewhere else along the corridor, which makes a scattered therapy calendar fragile. Families who anchor the week — one predictable day that never moves, with everything else arranged around it — tend to still be running the same schedule in month six.
The districts themselves pace very differently. Princeton is small and individualized, so conversations there are unusually specific but placement alternatives are limited. West Windsor–Plainsboro is large and regional, with preschool classrooms in more than one building, which turns the discussion toward which school, what the inclusion ratio is, and how related services are slotted into the day. Hamilton and East Windsor Regional coordinate a heavy volume of NJEIS transitions each spring; ask for the draft IEP ahead of the meeting so you can read the proposed goals against your own notes rather than reacting to them live. Lawrence Township runs a single early childhood location — predictable scheduling, fewer alternatives if the fit isn't right.
Wherever you are in the county, put the referral in writing and start it near 30 months. Twenty calendar days to an identification meeting, 90 days from consent to eligibility: those windows work in your favor only if the paperwork is dated. Raise extended school year at the annual review, not in June, when the team is already scheduling the summer it decided on months earlier.
The Princeton center is 8 to 15 minutes from West Windsor and Plainsboro by way of Route 1 and Alexander Road, and roughly 12 to 18 from Lawrence Township or Montgomery on Route 206. East Windsor runs closer to 20, Hamilton a bit more. Route 1 is fast until it isn't — between about 4 and 6 p.m. the stretch between Princeton and Lawrence loses the advantage entirely, so an afternoon block that looked convenient on a map can add half an hour each way. Families in the county's northern towns sometimes measure Piscataway via Route 27 as the alternative.